Detangling.
You’ve been a part of a person’s life for so long,and they’ve been a part of yours,mpaka by the time you’re breaking up,there’s a lot of stuff to detach from. All kinds of questions arise. Do I defriend them? Stop following them on Twitter? Delete their texts and their number? Are we still friends who can hang out and maybe cop a feel? If I comment on their status/photos will they think it’s weird? Do I still talk to the friends of mine that I made through him/her? Can I talk to them about him/her…do I have to start paying for my own dates again??? Do I stop talking to his/her folks? How are we supposed to act around each other? Damnit,I need a new movie buddy…et al.
Aaaaawkward.
tSN
When its over it's O.V.E.R,no wishfull or btw factor,focus!
#thatawkwardmoment when you notice that your ex keeps liking all your stati.. :-/
Nothing personal,just business! An ex is an ex for a myriad of good f**ing reasons! As for the friends you met or made whilst you were tight,just treat them like markets and try separating them!
#thatwakwardmoment. SO TRUE.
@knoppix lol
@Main but…but… :o)
ati WHO do you want paying for your dates?,No,really,you can do all the rest but your ex cant pay for that anymore, that's like a law in Physics! (and you cant like his mkz pics…now thats creepy)
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as a keen follower, am tempted to ask..'oh, honey; wat happened?' but i won't! i'll say this..there's no friendship between exes, if there happens to be (never a good idea) it's either you're still in love with them, or you never loved them at all…
@Lizdin perfectly put……many a times i have heard this tired line of “we are just good friends” wapi! Since when did an hyena and a goat cohabit in the name of good friends?? Kama duka limefungwa,limefungwa….jaribu kesho!
@Dan Hehe. Even those extras, ermm…
@lizdin Nothing happened. :o) It's jus on my mind, randomly. Like if something DID happen, lol! I'm still good friends with 2 out of 5 exes…one turned gay, one is, erm…long story. Hm. Next post, perhaps, after the series. :o)
@knoppix I am for reFUSE!! It is perfectly possible to coexist peacefully with people of different races…after all, I share the earth with men. 😀
One turned gay?? Um, was that like a #thatawkwardmomentwhen… moment??
@Brian Still not confirmed, but you know. *shrug* Lol
I say, cut him loose, cut off all loose attachments like twira and yes keep the friends-the only bridges you will not burn!
“do I have to start paying for my own dates again???” ______________errr YEAH! lolol!